Win or lose a game…

Does it make a difference if u win or lose a game?

As long as you keep playing.

As long as you keep enjoying. 

As long as you keep growing.

As long as you got a company to play.

As long as you value others to play and be valued as well. 

As long as participate as a player.

Keep playing don’t worry about a win or a loss.

Work is worship?

Can we still say work is worship today?

Even though it is interspersed with mobile, media & what-nots,

Even though it is tainted with materialistic gains,

Even though it is maligned with people’s politics,

Even though it is mixed with fear of our bosses to judge, 

Even though it has to be picked up from the leftover of others,

But in the end, if you are getting work, be grateful and worship it.

Because at least you are progressing in this chaos with your work!

Pause…

Take a pause,

Hold still,

Enjoy the time,

Enjoy present,

You will never get this time back,

So ride along with it,

Be in the present.

Enjoy the means…

What if you can enjoy the means and don’t worry about the ends.

Most of our time goes in the means to the end. The “ends” specifically the successful ends are few and overrated. Because as soon as you get to a successful end you want another one.

So enjoy the means as much as you can!

Can there be a set path to success?

To have a set path to success, there are a few things that should happen:

  1. The end goal should be constant i.e. for you and me the success end goal should be the same, but most of the time end goal changes, in fact, it changes almost as soon as you are closer to it.
  2. With the changes in our environment, our life, and our equation with other people, we are in a constant mode of evaluation, evaluating whether this is a successful state or not. Since this becomes a factor of the environment that keeps changing, it’s hard to define a fixed success path.
  3. You outgrow your success as soon as you attain it, imagine when you were younger, what was your dream? When I was in college my dream was to get a high-paying job, a really good high-class house or apartment, and a decent car, and then I am done. But as soon as I attended this, the need become more, it became greed..and more …and more…

There is only one way to have a fixed path to success and that is to change your mind, to change it to view success in small things, to view success in daily things, to view success in growth, to view success in learnings.

How to Get Better at Asking for Help

For many of us, asking for help is hard. Whether you’re afraid of feeling vulnerable, being rejected, or prefer to do things independently, you can take steps to overcome your reluctance to ask for help.

  • Seek out resources. Investigate your blockages and recognize the importance of getting over them. (Reading this tip could be a great first step!) But if you need further encouragement, technology has made it easier than ever to find the right coach or therapist.
  • Reframe your perception of help. Consider that asking someone for help isn’t burdening them, but giving them an opportunity to step up. Contributing to the success of the team is a win-win proposition.
  • Craft your request carefully. Ensure the help you ask for is specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound. This will increase the likelihood that your needs get met.
  • Communicate openly and authentically. The more people understand the problems you’re facing, the more equipped they’ll be to help you solve them.
  • Practice. Start small and see how it feels. Reach out to someone you’re super comfortable with, perhaps a family member or a trusted coworker, and ask for their help with something minor. You might be surprised by people’s willingness to lend a hand.